Jamaican | English/Irish/Italian
Separating from my Father at a young age, my Mum took on the role of Mother & Father and educated herself as a Mother of mixed-race children. My Mum is my role model, she has shown me how we must embrace our unique self and educate ourselves. Knowledge is powerful. She was my go to person for answers to my questions about my Black and White cultures, and she had the answers. She made sure we understood both cultures, but still I was heavily influenced by Jamaican culture. Saturday mornings included cleaning the house, reggae music blasting and a pot of soup cooking away! As well as siblings arguing over who had more dumplings in their bowl.
As I grew up I noticed the privilege I had due to the colour of my skin, but this didn't feel good or feel right. It felt unfair, wrong even. Even as a young girl I felt this. I thank my Mum so much for always reminding me who I am and what is important, but I still felt like I don't know where I fit. Do you have to be more Black or more White, and why do I have to pick a side, I am both Black & White; why can't I be seen for who I am.
Society is slowly changing but I have still experienced racism and inappropriate comments in spaces where they have assumed I am White, and then were shocked when I challenged and confirmed my identity. Previously I did not feel strong enough to use my voice because of my identity but now I do and will continue to challenge and push for change, diversity, inclusivity & representation, especially in the industry I work in and as a Mother of two mixed-race boys.
I want us to replace Hate with Love, Love each other for who they are and what they do, as well as how they make you feel. We must build together; our society is becoming more and more diverse, which is beautiful, but we must learn from each other, support each other and empower each other. Being mixed-race is beautiful, embrace the mix of your races that make you who you are. We are all unique. It is also important to learn self love and ask questions.
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